How to Attract an Aries Man! (+ my Secret Tips!)
You can't resist his energy, his aura, his charisma, which is matched only by that of Leo. Have you fallen in love with an Aries male? Know in advance that the game will be tough and the competition fierce, because you're probably not the first to show an interest in him. As for him, he loves women and the game of seduction.
Do you want to know the secret to seducing and charming him? Then read on to find out how to attract an Aries man.
Aries men have an inordinate amount of energy. A spark, a curiosity. An inner flame fueled by their passion.
This passion is contagious, and it's what makes Aries so attractive, and what makes a relationship with a man of this sign so rich and intense. This passion will also give you positive energy. It brings out the best in you.
But when you play with fire, you risk burning your fingers. There's a flip side to this, a darker side to Aries. Intolerance, selfishness and carelessness are all part of being in love with an Aries.
Aries men can offer the worst and the best. Things move so fast with this zodiac sign that many will be left behind before they've even begun. Still up for an adventure? Here's how to harness the fire and make it your own.
I've already warned you that the competition is going to be stiff. I've rarely seen an Aries man who didn't like to seduce or who didn't have many admirers. But don't worry, it's possible to tame his ardor.
Do a little research on him before taking action on the first date.
My little secret: Aries loves it when you do what he likes to do, so watch him carefully and listen to the stories he tells to find out what he likes to do. The more you know about him, the better. But don't nag him either, because he won't tolerate it.
Talk to him about himself. Subtly, of course, without appearing to be overdoing it or pestering him. Prepare a few questions to ask him when you meet. If he told you about something he felt strongly about when you first met him, ask him what happened to it when you meet him again. You'll see, he'll be excited to talk about it.
Aries doesn't care much about comfort. What interests him is you. Wondering what to wear to meet an Aries man? Be prim, be sexy, be a confident woman with a feminine shape. It's simple: wear the best you have to attract an Aries man. He'll love it!
Don't be shy or timid, Aries won't fall so easily into your trap. Be confident in your approach. Make the first move, initiate the conversation. His energy will be drawn to yours. Don't hesitate to flirt, flirt back, seduce, charm. Make your intentions known. But in a way that's subtle enough for him to want to be sure. Leave a little mystery. Aries loves women whose interest in him is a mystery. This even leads him to play the seducer.
Don't be in too much of a hurry, and don't expect too much from an Aries man. If you want to attract an Aries man's attention, make witty remarks, whether in writing or by text message. With him, you'll have to keep up the pace. The most important rule: never let the conversation get boring. Aries shuns boredom.
Talk about your passions. He likes to talk about himself, but won't be attracted to someone who doesn't have his own passions and goals. Talk about your dreams and what fuels them. All the while flirting, adding a few hints of love or sex. This will convey your intentions and at the same time make her feel special in your eyes.
Slip in little compliments. They may not admit it, but Aries men depend a lot on what others think of them. Seduction is his way of finding out his worth in life.
Ask him questions and show interest in his life. If you like the same things as he does, that will give you extra points. Be sincere and natural. They may not be quick to spot pretense, but it always comes across sooner or later. If there's one thing they can't stand, it's pretense. Don't overdo it or overthink things when you talk to or text an Aries man.
You can't imagine how quickly an Aries man will settle into a relationship by skipping the fun of seduction? Hunting? Aries loves the hunt more than any other sign of the zodiac. So how do you stay in control?
Start by being a challenge. He doesn't like things he can get too easily. Just as children will do anything to prove they can do it, so is Aries.
Don't tell him everything at once. Make him curious. Intrigue him. Be a mystery he'd like to solve. Then you'll have him on the hook. Let him come to you. Nothing will excite him more. He won't wait for the official moment to kiss you. Make sure you don't give in to temptation first and your first kiss will be unforgettable.
Make him wait, but let him win. Hint, but don't go all the way. Don't get too sentimental. Play hard to get and keep. That's what works with this man.
Don't be available to him all the time. Don't respond immediately to his text messages. He'll take you for granted if he knows you're always available.
An Aries man can sleep with a woman he likes if he's single and she's in his way. This has no deep meaning for him. But if you want this to translate into a long-term relationship, you have to play your cards right.
He wants to dominate, but he'll love it if you fight for dominance. He loves to make love in the 69 position. That way, he gets back what he gives. Maintain his attraction to you by avoiding routine or monotonous sex.
Sex should be rare enough to be special. If it becomes regular, he'll get bored. But don't go so far as to make him want to go elsewhere. He loves aggressive sex and has countless fantasies. The Aries man in bed can become very passionate, and going slowly isn't enough for him. The wilder it gets in bed, the more it excites him. Wear sexy lingerie and you'll drive him wild.
Once the chase is over and you've managed to get his attention, it's time to play the long game. To fall in love, the Aries man is only interested in his partner's character. Be hard-working and determined. As passionate as he is about his life and his goal, he expects the same from you. The Aries man won't settle for someone whose goal is to do nothing.
Strength and dignity always win his heart. An Aries man will never hesitate to defend those he loves. But for him to fall madly in love with you, you'll have to show the same strength of character as he does.
That doesn't mean he doesn't want to be your knight in shining armor. Just make him feel important to you. That is, be a little vulnerable at times and make him feel that you need him emotionally.
Don't hesitate to show subtle jealousy. He may look like someone who loves all things showy, but modesty is very dear to him. It's not so much about what you can do for him as who you are as a person who attracts an Aries man to a woman.
Finally, allow him to reveal his romantic side too. While he wouldn't mind switching roles with you, he's very much a man. Respect his independence. Above all, you need to trust him, because trying to keep him on a leash will only make him wilder. Don't miss out on such a wonderful relationship.
Astrologer for 15 years, I have been writing about Zodiac signs, their personalities, their psychology, their relationships, their passionate loves and their compatibility in love.