How to Attract a Capricorn Man! (+ my Secret Tips!)
Falling in love with a Capricorn is like tasting a fine wine. The older it gets, the better. Yet you may find that most of them are single, and in no mood to change that state of affairs either. Because if you're not the one for him, he'd rather focus on his ambitions. A tough exterior hiding a kind interior, that's what you'll get when you fall in love with a Capricorn. Want to know all the astrological secrets for seducing and attracting a Capricorn man?
Here is how to make a Capricorn man obsessed with you and keep him hooked!
He seems to have his life sorted out. He has his ambitions and knows what he wants out of life. So where do you fit in? If you've fallen in love with a Capricorn, you're a woman looking for a man in your life. Not just a fleeting fling. But a man who will give you a stable, happy life. As clear as he seems to be about what he wants from life, he doesn't say much about what he's looking for in a woman.
Men born under this astrological sign don't easily reveal their feelings, even if their appearance may initially suggest otherwise. You may come away feeling that you're not good enough for him. Although his ambitions may have attracted you, his lack of passion for other things could put you off. But if you liked the movie, "The Curious Case of Benjamin Button", you'll find life less fictional with this man.
Well, it's not easy. Mostly because you'll probably come away feeling that all your efforts have been in vain. Capricorns are very cautious and don't find anyone attractive on a first date. So the best you can do is hope to come across as someone they can relate to easily. That's a first battle won.
Of course, Capricorn men also like women who dress sexy. But sexy shouldn't be confused with vulgar. You don't have to try very hard to impress these men. They prefer classy women to beautiful women who are all over the place. All you need is to be a mature, well-bred woman, not a depraved girl who can't get enough sleep because of her countless parties.
It helps to have a general idea of what you want out of life. Capricorn men will be particularly interested in women who are independent and have plans for the future. So, when you first meet a Capricorn man, talk about your work and your ambitions. Ask him about his too. He loves to talk about them, more than his hobbies.
Don't flirt if you can't do it in such a subtle way that it would be very difficult to distinguish it from casual conversation. What should you wear on a date with him? Go for the colors green, gray and black. Touches of indigo and violet will also do the trick.
You don't want to get it wrong. Capricorn men don't give second chances. At least, not until they've fallen in love. One of the worst things you can do to a Capricorn is to be loud and exuberant. They love graceful, feminine women. They can't stand someone who draws the attention of everyone in the room to make a fool of themselves. It may sound old-fashioned, but he has the same values as all men.
Never give him orders. For a start, he prefers women who are independent. Secondly, if he offers to help, he doesn't want it to become a habit. If you have trouble controlling your emotions, the Capricorn man will take the first flight back to being single. These men can't stand emotions or drama. Try to keep your emotions under control.
Once he starts to like you, he'll show his affection for you every time you're together. That's how you'll be able to tell if the Capricorn man is in love and has feelings for you. But don't force him to show his affection in public - he hates that. But avoid being cold and distant. He doesn't want to waste his time with someone who isn't interested in him.
Finally, make sure you're tidy. He won't inspect you with a magnifying glass, but cleanliness is synonymous with organization for him, and disorganized or overly chaotic women aren't his thing.
We've already established that Capricorn men are attracted to independent women. Whatever you may have thought, however, Capricorn men aren't looking for a traditional woman who plays her part and doesn't step out of it. No! Capricorn men are more likely to let their wives live their lives as they please. They don't want your whole life to revolve around them.
They like intelligent women who know what they want from themselves, from life and from the Capricorn they're pursuing. This doesn't mean they'll like you more if you debate his every decision or condescend. He wants you to give him as much respect as he gives you. Being the practical person he is, he's looking for someone he can count on. Not just emotionally, but in all aspects of life. He needs a partner in life, not just a mistress.
Capricorn men are particularly attracted to confident women. But be careful not to cross the line between confidence and arrogance. A woman who takes good care of what she wears shows control over her life. Make sure you dress appropriately for the occasion when you're with him, especially when you're trying to flirt and seduce him on your first dates. Above all, he doesn't like women who settle for anything. If you have high standards, he'll know that you expect nothing but the best, and that you'll always give your best.
Capricorns don't believe in cat-and-mouse games. They don't like to chase after anyone. So let's focus on how to get his attention, keep him interested and keep him interested. The most important thing for a Capricorn is self-confidence. Be confident in yourself, because for him it's the most attractive thing in a woman. Confidence doesn't mean being outspoken or trashy. Confidence in the most graceful, independent sense of the word. You have to be his idol, not just his girlfriend.
Don't condescend, but be someone who inspires him. Conforming to the standards he has set for himself is the quickest trick to achieving this. Throughout this process, don't forget to pass on your love to your family. Capricorn is, after all, a family man. Seeing how you manage your loved ones' time despite busy schedules won't leave him indifferent. Although not a social being himself, he understands the importance of maintaining good relationships with people.
Do your best when you go out with him. Charm the people around you with elegance and grace. He likes sociable women who know how to behave in society. Again, don't forget to express your affection for him. Love goes both ways with this man. He'll leave if he doesn't feel you're as emotionally involved in the relationship as he is.
If you're ready to take things to the next level, you'll want to know how to excite and seduce him. A Capricorn man's erogenous zones are the back of his knees. Odd, isn't it? He thinks so too, which is why he probably doesn't even know it. So, if you're trying to turn him on, you can try massaging his legs and moving there gradually.
If he makes love to you, it means he really loves you. So he doesn't just want sex, he wants to make love. This means the experience has to be spiritual. You must be fully committed to making love and not doing it just to satisfy yourself. He will depend heavily on you to satisfy all his needs in bed. His pleasure in bed may put you off. But know that if he's having fun, he'll return the favor.
This can also make your relationship with him difficult, because Capricorn men are prone to cheating, even when they're in love. Their constant need for security and dependence on women to feel good about themselves stands in the way of certain moral standards. So it's best that you take care of all his desires to keep him from drifting away.
How to make a Capricorn man fall in love? Ultimately, he wants a partner for life, not a vacation fling. Be the one to catalyze his ambitions. Not only does he want you to have your own ambitions, but he also wants you to support his ambitions and goals. Your lives have to be in sync if they're not to depend on each other.
He still believes that family is the most important thing in life. Show him your family values and your ability to start a family. Capricorn men, even if they hate to be made to feel it, need to be pampered. Take care of him and shower him with love. He loves women who make him feel at home.
Above all, don't try to change him. He's worked very hard to eliminate anything that isn't perfect in his personality. If you try to change that, he'll change his feelings for you. This man has a specific goal. If you play your cards right, you can be part of it.
Astrologer for 15 years, I have been writing about Zodiac signs, their personalities, their psychology, their relationships, their passionate loves and their compatibility in love.