How to Attract a Gemini Man! (+ my Secret Tips!)
Do you find it hard to grasp him, to see his intentions, to penetrate his innermost desires? Sometimes you feel you understand him, then at other times you don't at all. How can such a sociable man be so withdrawn at the same time? Well, spend more time with him and you'll see that he really does have two very distinct personalities.
How to seduce a Gemini man? How do you make him fall in love with you? And how to know if he likes you?
I'm going to let you in on a few secrets that you should read carefully if you want to attract a Gemini man and make him obsessed with you!
He's the life and soul of the party, and you can't deny it. Unlike Aries and Leo men, he doesn't just want to be the center of attention. He wants to have fun and please others, while savoring the admiration he receives. You've fallen for him too, haven't you? But this same man probably turned out to be the rudest or most detached person you'd ever met within a week of your first meeting.
"I could tell you all about my adventures, starting this morning.... At least I knew who I was when I got up, but I've had to change several times since then."
How could this be? Was it a facade? Before you can find the answers to these questions, he'll be back to his original charm. With no memory of that dark period you've just described. Loving a Gemini is a roller-coaster ride. You'll never know what's in store for you, but the good times are worth fighting for. Should I reserve the first seat on the train for you?
If you've made up your mind about this man, then act fast. The Gemini man doesn't stay single for long. The longer you wait, the quicker he'll find a replacement. Start by trying to get one-on-one time with him. You'll rarely find a Gemini who isn't surrounded by people. So work your way up to finding some intimacy with him. Only then will you have his full attention. Don't pretend to be someone you're not. With all this duality in him, he's already fed up with people being hypocritical. He needs you to be who you are.
Geminis are always ready to have a conversation. Talk about his favorite subjects to get a conversation going. People who share common interests are fascinating to everyone. Show your own brand of originality. He's looking for the rarest of the rare. Each of us has our own character that sets us apart from the crowd. Make it your strength. Wear something attractive that conveys your intentions. He hates austere clothes and loves the color orange. That's something to keep in mind.
Communicating by text or SMS with a Gemini man can be a real ordeal. Especially if you don't yet have a serious relationship with him. The thing is, he's not good at it. But if you're still in the initial phase of trying to attract and flirt with him, he won't feel obliged to respond. It sounds snobbish, but that's his nature. For all that, texting is a form of conversation that can be a way of impressing him.
But keep the following things in mind: he's a deep guy who can't help talking about politics, history or current affairs. Your knowledge and interest in these issues will make him even more engaged. But don't forget to draw him in on more intimate subjects. Naughty or sexy text messages always get a response from the Gemini man. Excitement is something he can't resist, and flirting keeps him in a good mood.
He needs to know that you're not a clingy person and that you appreciate freedom, whether it's your own or someone else's. So talk about the things you've done without him. Let him know that being in a relationship with you won't mean a deprivation of freedom.
Show interest in his hobbies, that should get him talking. The most important thing is not to be clingy. Don't expect him to answer all the time. If he doesn't, don't demand an explanation. He'll run off faster without you being able to figure out what happened.
We've talked enough about flirting for you to understand that it's a key aspect of getting his attention. I've also talked about the importance of being original. So here are a few tips on how to flirt with a Gemini man to get his attention:
Never be afraid to flirt. He takes it as a compliment. More importantly, he loves attention and flirting is a sure way to give it to him. Intelligence impresses Gemini. Share your knowledge on any subject you discuss. Find out what he's interested in and tell him what he thinks. Refer to these topics when flirting.
An ambitious, daring woman has charm for Gemini men. Don't be afraid of appearing too masculine for his taste. It's one of his biggest fantasies. He doesn't like timid flirtations. Passionate debates excite him. Don't argue, but turn those debates into something incredibly sexy. Appeal to his creative side. If you have an artistic bent, don't forget to use it to your advantage. Don't the most romantic movies show the female protagonist as a sensual artist?
Do anything, but never pursue a Gemini man. He'll assume you've got nothing better to do and, as a result, will immediately abandon the idea of a relationship with you. The key to getting him to pursue you is to make him realize that you're the only one. In other words, you have to make the Gemini man miss you. Here's how.
Servitude and dependence are the two words he hates most. So, he needs to know that you have a very active life. Stay busy and don't waste too much time with him. He'll know you're not going to corner him. But be careful that he doesn't get the impression that you're disinterested. To avoid this, do something nice for him or send him gifts, for example. Maintain contact while being absent from time to time.
The easy way to stay in his thoughts: Don't lift the veil of mystery. You don't have to be someone you're not, but don't give away all your secrets at once. Make sure he's interested in you and wants to know more.
Give him his space and time. The amount of space and time a Gemini needs differs from Gemini to Gemini. But they all need it, and you should learn to live with it. Other gentle reminders like your perfume sprayed on his pillow, reminding him that you can do wonders for him. You need to stay in his thoughts, so don't disappear completely.
Making a Gemini man fall in love is probably the hardest job there is. If the Gemini man feels that you've forced him to fall in love with you, he'll push you away. All your progress will crumble. Follow these steps to get him to come to you. Planning for the future never works. He's aware of his duality and would never bet on anything. If you seem to be someone who has already decided on his children's names, he won't stay long. Live in the moment and plan only for the immediate future.
He hates predictability. If you want him to love you, you'll have to keep him guessing. That mystery, uncertainty and haste that comes with it will keep him around for a long time. Don't be a prude about sex. Like everything else, Geminis like to keep the excitement going. Always be ready to try new things in bed.
Learn to take risks. It's hard to keep the excitement and thrill of a relationship going. The easiest way to do this is to keep taking risks and trying new things. After all, falling in love with this man was a risk in itself.
Astrologer for 15 years, I have been writing about Zodiac signs, their personalities, their psychology, their relationships, their passionate loves and their compatibility in love.