7 Things to know to make a Cancer Man go Crazy about you!
If I had to pick one man, whom I found to be the most difficult to charm, it would be the Cancer male. Time and again, through different stages of life, I have met different men born under this zodiac sign. All of them were so very same, yet so different. And trying to understand their personality is no easy task. But it doesn't seem so difficult, does it? I mean, he is so nice and loving and kind and so very gentleman-like. Well, you're not wrong. But and maybe because of that, he comes with sky-high standards and expectations. So you have a crush on a Cancer man and want to know the secrets of his heart to make him fall for you? More than than, how to make him obsessed with you? Addicted to you?
Here are the most precious tips you need to know to make a Cancer man go crazy about you!
Let’s begin with the most important thing: love.
It is important to let him set the pace of the relationship. Going too fast or too slow will surely make him wobble. The last thing you want is to give him the wrong message. So, it’s ok to walk at his pace or sprint at his space.
Being independent and beautiful are equally important. He’s not your typical Fire sign, he’s a Water sign. He wants you to depend on him more than the Aries man would want. But then again, he doesn’t want you to be incapable of existing without him.
You will have to bear his possessive and jealous streaks too. Never try to intentionally make the Cancer man jealous. God knows he is extremely jealous as is. He also tends to get very possessive which makes things difficult for a woman who answers to no one.
Get his advice and opinions on important matters. He needs to know that you respect his intellect. He needs to feel like the two of you are a team. And nothing makes it happen better than making decisions together.
Let him know you are always there for him. He needs to know that no matter what happens he can always count on you to be there. He doesn’t trust easy. But if he finds someone he can depend on.
The best place to begin is the communication of your intentions. The Cancer male should know exactly where he stands with you.
Make sure that he is clear about how you feel. This is the first step towards getting him to start thinking about you the same way. If he doesn’t know how you feel, he might not do anything.
The next step should be building a bond. Don't make him feel like a relationship is all you want. Try to be his friend first. He will value you a lot more in his life if you are a friend and not just a lover. Aim at developing a long-lasting friendship.
Keep things simple with him. The more drama you bring into the friendship/relationship, the worst it is. Cancer men like things to be calm and orderly. They cannot stand situations or people who are too complex.
Take care of him and let him take care of you. He is looking for someone who cares for him just the way his mother does. But he doesn't want it to be one-directional affection. Let him feel that you depend on him just as much. Allow him to take care of you too.
Accept his traditional beliefs. Everyone around him is trying to modernise his approach to life. All he needs is someone who accepts him for who he is. The Cancer man will never take someone who lets him be himself, for granted.
I know that commitment can be an issue with this man. Well, not exactly commitment. His inability to run at your pace. So, my advice to you starts by asking you the following:
Be patient with this guy. Many a woman has ruined their perfect love stories by rushing their Cancer lovers. He needs to work things out on his own speed. And trust me the wait will definitely be worth it. However, to successfully get him there, you can do these things.
Always be open and honest with him. The better he knows you, the surer he is to commit. For the Cancer male, love is all about trusting each other. And you can never trust someone you don’t know.
Don’t play games with him or create drama. He wants a peaceful and happy life with the woman he can trust with his life. If he cannot get that from you then he will never commit. So, try and be as straightforward as possible, without the risk of hurting his feelings.
Accept him for who he is, quirks and all. He is not like other men and that is why you love him, right? This also means that he does some wacky things that you probably would like to do away with. Don’t, even for a second, think that you can change him. You either accept him for who he is or find yourself another man.
So, how do you know if your moves are taking effect of not? Well, here are some clear signs that you will see in his behavior when he has fallen in love with you.
You will be the sole focus of his attention. You already know that he is a flirt. But when a Cancer man starts falling in love things change. He will pay attention to you and all your needs.
He would do things to make you feel special. He might not be good at surprises and stuff. But when he’s in love, the Cancer guy goes out of his way to make his lady love feel special. Has he been planning the most romantic dates lately?
He will open up about his deepest feelings. The Cancer man doesn’t normally talk about his emotions and feelings. He might open up a little to the women he dates. But only to the woman he loves will he be completely honest.
And above all, he would want you to meet his family and friends. And meet yours too. This is a surefire sign of his love ad commitment. Cancer men don’t get their families involved unless they are in it for the long haul. CONGRATULATIONS!!
The Cancer man is almost every woman’s dream. But dreams often turn out to be incompatible with what we really want. Let's see what is the best love match for the Cancer man in astrology.
The most compatible zodiac signs with the Cancer man are Taurus, Virgo, Scorpio and Pisces. Each of these signs is not only compatible with the Cancer male emotionally, but also sexually. They are able to understand each other in a way that no one else can and that helps make their union successful. However, love doesn’t always come easy. There are also zodiac signs which don’t necessarily get along that well with the Cancer man.
The signs that the Cancer guy has to work extra hard with are Aries, Gemini, Libra, and Aquarius. There is always a communication gap between these couples which makes things difficult.
Astrologer for 15 years, I have been writing about Zodiac signs, their personalities, their psychology, their relationships, their passionate loves and their compatibility in love.