How to Know if a Sagittarius Man is Playing You?
Sagittarius men take a long time trusting someone with their heart. He is a social butterfly and enjoys having endless conversations with anyone who meets his intellectual parameters. If he is playing you, he'll be unavailable. So, how do you know if a Sagittarius man doesn't have sincere feelings for you and is not interested in a serious relationship?
Let's see what astrology can reveal us. Here are some clear, obvious signs that a Sagittarius man is just playing or using you and not serious about you and the relationship:
A man born under the Sagittarius Zodiac sign seldom lies. He is honest right from the beginning of a relationship with you. He is blunt and has no qualms telling you his real intentions. If a Sagittarius man is lying to you, he is in no mood to fall in love with you. He'll swiftly move on in life if he is planning an exit. Their idealism is so pronounced that they may get caught while speaking a lie or misrepresenting facts. He'll avoid making eye contact or choose to avoid your company when he is bored of you. He'll make excuses so that he can keep you on the loop until he finds someone who is his perfect match.
Sagittarius is a fire sign that dares to do the unexpected. They are too detached and carefree to fear being rejected by someone they really want. Pursuing the next object of their desire is a favorite activity for them for their desperation to learn and expand is unrelenting. They'll boldly state their feelings for you rather than keep it under the rug. They are confident communicators and can sweep off the woman they yearn to possess just their brilliant ability to lead.
Your Sagittarius man is using you if he avoids you in public. He is scared of being seen with you for he is not sure of keeping you in his life for long. He'll keep his communication short and crisp. If the Sagittarius man was obsessed over you, he would display his longing to share his expansive knowledge with you and be your true guide. The Sagittarius guy is a charmer who is comfortable having casual sex. He'll keep it simple with no strings attached. If the only idea behind meeting you is physical intimacy with no real objective of connecting with you on an emotional level, he is indifferent to your love interest.
If a Sagittarius man is disinterested, he'll be honest with you. He'll avoid your calls and texts and perhaps ghost you too. His otherworldly interests make him stay detached from the physical plane. He'll behave like a playboy and have multiple interests avoiding any commitment whatsoever. He is a seeker of knowledge. He'll want to travel far and wide towards the path of truth and enlightenment. In all fairness, his outlook of life is eccentric. There will be a general disliking towards being chained down and asked to conform to social standards. He wants to protect his freedom and therefore, he'll show his coldness around emotional individuals who'll expect his involvement right away.
Sagittarius men will seldom feel the need to settle quickly in life. If they have been maintaining a distance from you, they are projecting a clear lack of interest in the mundane aspects of life. Relationships to them aren't a priority as much as learning and traveling is. They have an adventure streak that naturally draws them towards exploring and figuring out the unknown.
He could also leave you out in the cold if he has been neglected or hurt. He may not be forgiving of someone who manipulates him or takes advantage of his trust. Faith once lost is hard to regain with the Sagittarius male who is guarded about his integrity and values. If you don't fit his criteria of a relationship, he'll easily let go and find someone better. So, he might already be evaluating another prospect when he has plans to give up on you.
To gain back the Sagittarius man's attention, show him that you care about his beliefs and ethics. He wants to protect his space. Avoid controlling tendencies and release him from unwanted responsibilities that cause heaviness around him. He is determined to fight for enlightenment, to find his own guide as much as he shows the light to those who wish to follow him. Unless he is hailed for the person that he is and trusted deeply, it is difficult to win his attention and expect him to be sensitive to your needs. The regular methods of charming the opposite sec may not work on him as it does on a material level with other signs. Extend your hand without expectations. Be a giver and practice compassion without selfish motives. He'll judge you beyond superficial standards. So, unless he is convinced of your character, he'll pretend to be aloof.
Sagittarius men express their love through simple gestures. They'll show an active interest in your life. They'll want to sort your problems and offer you valuable suggestions to improve your life. He will share his life experiences with you so that you learn and enrich yourself with the invaluable information. He'll want to travel with you and show you places through his eyes. He'll want to take you out in public and show you off to the world. He'll be intensely sexual around you and want your undivided involvement to build a passionate chemistry with you. He'll make you weak in your knees with his sweet and romantic communication skills. He'll be patient with you and yearn for your presence in whatever he does.
A Sagittarius man is testing you when he is being inquisitive about your interests. He wants to ensure if you are mentally and sexually compatible with him. He'll keep his emotions to himself when he is making love to you. He'll pretend like he doesn't care so that you don't raise the expectations high. In the meanwhile, he'll try to dig out all he wants about your pasts and makes an instant decision of whether he would want any further involvement or not. He is intelligent and charming. He'll want to hang out with you only when it is convenient for him and give you a host of reasons about what keeps him busy. He;ll play hard to get so that he can gauge your true interest in his life. He'll put you on a tight spot for he is experienced in life and knows what he wants. Simply the best or nothing else.
Astrologer for 15 years, I have been writing about Zodiac signs, their personalities, their psychology, their relationships, their passionate loves and their compatibility in love.